yup!! the C agrees she is very whisy washy thought. I got a real awakeninmg when the C said " ya know i whish you would stand up for yourself sometimes. your going to creat a flip in your M dynamic where your the victime and shes gets to dominate you. in fact i would hazzard your the vistim now. she gets to never put you first and yet gets to be papmered by you" I was like wow.

dont want to pull a fish ( sorry good buddy had to \:\) ) but i am getting a little frustrated by the fact that she wants to be put first but wont even put me third.