How do I approach our appt. together next week? Should I say I don't want a divorce?
Do I talk? Or just listen as H talks? I'm not sure how much he'll offer up on his own.
Can I actually offer up my version of events, and let my true feelings be known, or is this a time to listen, validate, and keep my mouth shut to listen to what he has to say?
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
