T, I think going to NYC when you were scheduled to go originally is the right plan.. that way there should be less pressure on you.. which in turn will be less pressure transmitted to your B.
You are so smart... We gotta pay attention to the vibes. And like Kalni said, I want to cultivate a good "smell", the smell of contentment, relaxation, calm!
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I agree.. why do most people outside of the BB feel like we should just throw in the towel and never look back. A lot of them force feed their opinions and get angry when you don't do as they suggest.
Dude... I am so with you on this one!! I think it's because they don't want us to hurt, and they think that throwing in the towel is the best way to stop hurting. Or they are not oriented towards reconciliation and they are looking at our sitch through those lenses. I think our culture thinks of relationships and people as very disposable. If someone's not giving you what you "need", then you can just throw them away like a Dixie Cup. (that's a bell hooks quote). That's not the way I think!
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Why is the world so pessimistic in these sitchs and prone to say "move on!!" like we are all just herding sheep... why cant they see that you can break away from the pack a little, wait in the long grass.... ?
Ali!!!! I love this image... break away from the pack... wait in the grass... might need to make this into a little sign to post somewhere where I can see, maybe also with the "flabbergasted" joke!!
