Wow, that must not have been easy to deal with. Things get really tough when kids are involved. Listen, she is clearly struggling with a lot of stuff inside and so much so that it is hard even for her to see it I think. Your post earlier was admirable in being able to look at this not from a good person / bad person perspective. I think you want to separate judging behavior from the person whenever possible, though sometimes it ain't easy.
Listen, what's your plan for some good self care things for you, The Tree, this weekend? Sometimes, I don't hear as much on what good things you are doing for you and I want good things for you! So post us what your thoughts are on this.
