Just had rehearsal tonight; that went well. H is such a jerk though! I was running late so he and I saw each other for a few minutes (he is trying to avoid me I think) and then when I said Hi and Bye he ignored me and didn't say a word.
When I got back from rehearsal, H was still here but left as soon as I got home. I spoke to him about his promise to watch D8 while S14 was working as a stage tech which he had signed up for & H had volunteered a month ago to watch D8 while he was doing that. I told him that tonight the stage manager had asked for S14 to start coming to the rehearsals & reminded him of his promise of a few weeks ago and now H was upset and said he is busy Tues. night and can't make it or tomorrow, and etc. and said I should just take Jamie there for the late night rehearsals and let her play her Game Boy if I was a regular parent (I won't be able to supervise her b/c I am doing costume changes, acting, dancing, etc. His parental concern is so touching. Not.)
I emailed him and said I didn't need his help since he seems as if he is too busy to do it, but he emailed back that he will try to do a few nights. I said he doesn't have to, but if he could at least watch D8 during the actual performances (since there won't be a place for her to hang out then and people will be running around nude backstage b/c of all the costume changes.
H then emailed that when he was doing a play in December that I wasn't there every night to watch her (and apparently he tells me now he seems upset over that although he never said a word at the time. I emailed back that I was there often, but some nights I would be crying (he told me the IDLY speech and asked for a divorce and I found out about the OW at that time and he would ask me not to go as I was too upset. He said in his email I "couldn't be bothered" but I was there as much as I could be (I was in bad shape then admittedly but it wasn't b/c I couldn't be bothered!!! I am starting to believe he is just a jerk & not like him at all! Karen
Karen
