Let go of making the kids help me with home projects, cleaning their rooms, etc. Pick the battles. Focus more on being the mom rather than being a prison guard. They need a parent more than a foreman.
Let go of worrying about H. He's a man who is on his own journey.
Let go of being fearful of the future (finances in particular). Things are only things.. and who knows, I may actually do something with my writing skills!
Let go of the comfort of fear. It's always so easy to be scared. I'm going to think of fear as a big ole playground bully. It only has as much power as I give it.