CRS, thanks for your advice...I'll have to do some thinking about finding out more from him about the affair. As far as the anger, it took me a week to get angry, another week or so to move on from that, and basically was gone after he'd been gone a month. If I sat around thinking about certain things, I know the anger would surge up again, but I don't want to drown in it. My husband is aware of my pain, anger, sadness, etc. I'm just trying to give him time and space to deal with/get over OW and the excitement of the affair so that he can deal with our marriage and me.
I don't know much about your situation, but I hope all goes well for you too!
