I agree.. why do most people outside of the BB feel like we should just throw in the towel and never look back. A lot of them force feed their opinions and get angry when you don't do as they suggest.
I'm glad to have this board where people are like minded in the goal of trying to better our relationship with ourselves while trying to better our relationships with our significant others.
T, I think going to NYC when you were scheduled to go originally is the right plan.. that way there should be less pressure on you.. which in turn will be less pressure transmitted to your B.
I can't even imagine being you and how excited (yet likely a bit overwhelmed) you must be feeling right now.. After 5 months you spoke on the phone with your beloved.. wow.. what a week!!
