I went looking for your thread after you wrote to me today. Some things are very similar for me. My H's OP is not my friend but that is what he claims she is to him, a cell phone bill with 200 calls in December is what blew the top off. At that time he understood and wasn't going to do it anymore, fast forward to vacation in Feb, he called and texted her everydaym this time when I confronted him about it he was unsure of his feelings. A month and a half later he is still here but still talks to her, he no longer says ILY, or uses and language that indicates that we are in love or speaks of a future. Everyday is an emotional struggle for me because I like you believe that the person I am with should love me like I love them,
I saw a quote at work one day that says just because someone doesn't love you the way that you want them too doesn't mean they don't love you with all that they have.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
