Keep up all the great DBing. Others here have given such good advice, I have little to add, except one thing about the porn. If my h and I are together, that's one thing. But if I found him with it by himself, I'd be weirded out, I admit.
Have I EVER looked at a well built guy and "lusted", umm, yes. Sure. But I'm talking about things I don't pursue or buy, but see on tv or in my face at sports events. I think the thing I'd be afraid of is that when we are being intimate, he's secretly wishing I were someone else that he has pictures of. That would hurt. (( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
