well, it will be 5 years tomorrow. 5 years since we said I do. H and I went for drinks after work today. Just relaxed and hung out a bit. He went to church this evening. I'm home, just hanging out and enjoying the peace and quiet. We have been having some great times together the past few weeks. Things have been great between us. We're still "working" on the sex thing - his working up to it, and I'm working at no pressuring him. We had a brief conversation last night about it, again. H said he is trying and I said I don't want to push him and he has all the time he needs to get there on his own. He said he doesn't feel pressured at all and is working at a pace comfortable to him. That's good. I acknolwedgeded what I saw as effort and H said he is glad I'm noticing. So, it was a positive interaction even if it's still frustrating for me. H is pretty "hands-on" lately so that's good. (and I mean, literally - his hands are all over me - a lot) but still no sex - or even mild "hooking up". Just a lot of flirtatious grabby moments. it's more than it was though so I'll take it.
We don't have a lot planned for the weekend. We're hitting a Sunday bruch on sunday afternoon so tha will be nice and that's about it. Not much else going on. We have plans tomorrow - I will get my car inspected and get a manicure/pedicure, H has basketball to watch. Things are just moving along...
Hope you all are doing well!! Em
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
