Thanks for your reply Sandi. Some good stuff in there for sure. I really do not know what I will do or how this will work out. While I am angry with my wife for walking out on her kids, I am glad that she did not take them with her. I have to keep reminding myself that if nothing else, in the situation at least I have my boys and I know that I can give them the love and support that she can't. I don't know what she is doing, but God does. I want to try because I don't believe in divorce, or at least I did not before this happened. I don't want my kids to have to deal with divorce because they are the ones who become the victims. This has only been two months but all the things she said she would do have not happened. She said she would be by to see them every day...more like once or twice a week if lucky. The same with phone calls. She said she would support them by buying food and paying for child care....not happening. I can afford to care for my kids and they are making out ok without her, but I wonder if that is god or bad for her future relationship with them. I am just shocked that this woman who was the most doting and caring mother can just walk away. I would be equally surprised if she just walked away from me with no kids involved because of the kind of relationship we had but I am an adult and I can deal with it. But when I think of the kids it just blows my mind.
Either she has totally lost her self and maybe her mind or she is dealing with some serious guilt.
In case any of you that are not familiar with my sit, her mother did the same thing to her and her brother when she was young. She has had no contact with her mother since. Scary huh.....
