He came by this afternoon to do me a quick favour. When he arrived he said "I just spent an hour crying." I asked "why" and he says "the F-ing shrink". He explained that he had a session yesterday and another today and then stopped talking.
How am I supposed to answer that. I didn't say anything. Should I have said anything more? He's not really open about much lately so I don't want to press but if he didn't want me to say something he wouldn't have mentioned it would he? (analyzing)
He's so depressed. He says he can't sleep at night and then is tired during the day. He fell asleep on the sofa after he did the favour and then ran out the door because he had another class.
I haven't pressed any R talks since we had the fight last week. I know I need to wait for him to talk first but I really would like to know what he decided regarding suing me.
I said in my old thread that I felt he was testing me. I still think he's watching to see how I react to everything. I wasn't giving him much space but this past week I have backed off about 90%. There have been no questions from me and I feel good that I haven't pushed the topics with him that I'm so curious about.
Time and patience I guess.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
