I have heard from so many people that once the LBS quits trying, then that is when the WAW will turn around and try to make amends. My question I guess is how many of you have heard this and what are the circumstances? Maybe we don't hear about these as much because the LBS has really moved on and won't entertain reconcillation at that point.
From what I have read, Men are more likely to try then women.
Thoughts?
Me 38 Her 31 Daughter 3
Dated 5 yrs Married 7 PA Bomb 7/26/07 Sep 1 9/1/07 Sep 2 1/5/08
Well I guess I am talking about after the LBS has actually quit and basically given up. I have heard from so many people that once she gets out and sees that the 'grass ain't greener' and thinks that I have moved on she will really start to regret her decision and want her life back. I have read that this takes from six months to two years.
Me 38 Her 31 Daughter 3
Dated 5 yrs Married 7 PA Bomb 7/26/07 Sep 1 9/1/07 Sep 2 1/5/08
Well, that would also depend on OP, too..If they have another R going on, like in my sitch, who think OM is the greatest ever, then you have to let it run its course.
Since with my sitch, she is blindly in "love", so the grass is greener right now...
How long has it been. I know that mine is seeing a married man. Funny thing is he has only been married for 5 months. I don't know what kind of future she sees, but that is hers. She pushed the amicable D through really fast. I am pretty sure it was one of those "If you get yours, I'll get mine" I am pretty sure that this will crash down around her within time but I am not waiting around, just curious if other people have heard of other WAW coming back after their trip over the fence and realizing its not all that. Most of the stories that I have heard indicate that it takes from about 6 months to 2 years.
The sitch by "success" kind of illustrates this.
Me 38 Her 31 Daughter 3
Dated 5 yrs Married 7 PA Bomb 7/26/07 Sep 1 9/1/07 Sep 2 1/5/08
Though it should be said that if we have "moved on" hoping that they will notice we have moved on and get interested again, it's not really moving on, is it?
And for whatever reason, the MLC'er or WAS seems to have a highly accurate bs detector.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
It has happened to me. I never elaborate here but for sure, he got real interested in my life again once he knew I was with someone else.
Trip - i have heard this time and time again AND hte wierd thing is in my heart of hearts I know that about my H. He will NEVER think I have moved on until there is someone in my life.
What did he do do you knew??
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
Though it should be said that if we have "moved on" hoping that they will notice we have moved on and get interested again, it's not really moving on, is it? Bill
Bill i have read your post throughout..and as my s19 would say "toshay" Good point. I sure would like to want to move on....and even coming over to the "now divorced" area is a step...we aren't yet but we are. If that makes any sense.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
