She is giving you crumbs at this point, and that is what you are living on.
Couldn't agree more.
Originally Posted By: Dazed&Confused
This week I've spoke to her twice. Granted one of those times we went out to dinner, but I guess I want her to see what she'll be missing if we D.
If she can see it, she can't miss it.
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I've already told her I can't be 'just friends' with her, so if D goes through then there won't be anymore contact. She got a taste of that this week.
Hardly, my friend. You caved and went out to dinner with her. Again. She'll call, again, and you'll reply, again. She's getting what she wants from you, then gets to leave to be with OM. Why? Because you allow the cycle to continue.
As long as she has this, it will never end. Terribly sad but true.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
