Neecy, when was the last time YOU suggested or initiated a night out with H?
I think if going out and using that certificate would be something you'd enjoy, then I say why not ask? You don't do it all the time, right? Invite H, but DO NOT EXPECT the response you would like to hear. If he says yes, nice. If he says no, then ok. Just tell yourself, "Alright. Another time maybe. No biggie." You will be fine!
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
That is a little spooky! 
