Well, if you're not even sure YOU are committed, take it slow & see what happens.

I think one thing you could do when you are ready is say "hey, how about going to the mall & looking for those new rings we talked about." I think you'll know from her answer to that whether she's committed at that point or not.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10