DETACH! There is probably very little you can do right when she gets in one of her moods - and there are probably a lot of them as she is riding a roller-coaster of emotions and thoughts, throw in some depression and denial and you've got a mess going on in her head. It's not your mess though.
Michelle, That's all great advice. I'm planning to give her a great date night tomorrow. We'll see how it goes. I'm going to make all the plans and act "as if". With the angry phone calls and e-mails I'm questioning this, but I'm tired of being back on the roller-coaster. Hopefully this weekend will go well, she'll go back and be miserable in Houston, and I can detach and work on myself some more.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
