I am not sure about the whole roommate thing. I am still paying for all of the bills (excpet my husband's cell phone and his student loan) including car insurance, his car payment, water, electric, the house, etc. etc. I am also paying for all of the groceries and any other items he needs (shaving cream, shampoo and stuff like that). When I had a roommate in college, I didn't buy her stuff. She bought her own and we labeled it with our names. Most of the time I don't mind buying him things, but when I spent my last $100 on groceries and he is buying a car stereo, it makes me wonder if he is taking advatage of me.

I thought of starting small. Asking him to pay the water bill. Then maybe adding up from there. He isn't paying his student loan. Those bills are just sitting on the table. I know he won't take it well and I HATE making all this about money.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08