last night was horrible. She was cold and mean and hateful. She brought up moving to a different town without us again even.
do you ever get a clue when you should back up and do something different...sounds like that you got the message quickly that she was cold, but then were available for her to proceeded with negatives of that moving conversation and other "mean and hateful" things...just a thought. You can "as if", 180, GAL, etc...but I don't see the point in provoking/feeding the negative. You seem very available - available for movie time and yet negative time...try some GAL things - for you and you only.
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...took off her glasses for her. Of course I didn't get a thank you or anything
you are expecting to much...preacher talked about real love the other day. He had several points but here's one that applies to us - Real Love is loving and expecting nothing in return. Feels good when you show love this way...don't be hurt that she didn't say thank you. Feel good because you did it for her...the end.
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We have a big long weekend out of town coming up.
that's vague...what's up. together plans?
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Anyway, she said that she might go to a make-up party tonight and even acted like she didn't want to tell me where it was.
she told you. she is sharing be happy with that...are you prying? or controlling? I ask because you say "acted like she didn't want to tell me where it was"...kind of sounds like she mentioned it and you asked more about it.
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I don't know... It's just not a good deal again. I am going to leave her a lone today and see what happens...
things change, you sound like you are working too hard. Also, one day...that is not long.
