Cw--it sounds like he is on his way back for sure. That's great. When were you and he last intimate? How did the intimacy dwindle (if you don't mind me asking.)
My H doesn't want to have sex with me anymore because he's worried I will use it as "proof" that he has the right feelings for me, which he adamantly does not. It's been about 3 months and it gets harder and harder to imagine going there ever again. I have started to become self conscious about changing in front of him. Very weird.
Do you attribute his turnaround to your DBing or his time away, or both? Did he say the ILYBINILWY (I forget)?
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08