I'm so glad your trip went well. I'm not surprised that your h is cycling back to you (yet again)- he sees that you are going to be OK on your own and that freaks him out. Keep focusing on yourself and your kids and you will be great!

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08