Hey RTL.. I understand when you sayy Why is my clarity coming now, when my W is so unhappy? Why didn't I understand when I still had an opportunity to keep the train on the tracks? I feel like God is playing a cruel joke on me. as I felt exactly the same way! I think a few of us here did. I guess our partners took the decision to conceal stuff and we had no say in that. It sucks bigtime.

I'm sorry she is being so hostile, she seems to be getting worse, rather than better..but it cant go on for ever, this anger and if you keep "being the man" one day she may notice. This anger of bile of hers wont do her or your D any good in the long run. In fact if she is in this space, I'd be surprised if the OM lasts as long as 6 months...your W cant be much fun to be around lately, what with that T-bar face and tension headaches!!

Ali
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Me: 36 H: 34
T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
will he reconnect?


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
my thread