She might get a little short with the kids because she is stressed but she doesn' take it out on them.

Instead of a minefield I like to think of it as a blind man feeling his way through a razorblade factory. Nothing deadly, but unforseen and painful.

Update

When I saw W 2nd time this AM she was very apologetic for her earlier spew. I accepted her apology and told her it was no big deal.

Could she be trying to reconnect? She said something this AM about us not working together as partners. Does this mean she wants to? How do you partner with someone as you are divorcing them? Should we have a talk about our expectations?

To fix the tax problem my mail will now go to "our" house where she lives. Now we'll have to see more of each other. Beautiful.

Last edited by sleeper; 03/28/08 05:17 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.