Hmmmm.....6 months of dedicated divorce busting. Regardless of what went on. I wonder Fish - if you've actually READ the books? Did you expect that 6 months of your "hard" work would save the marriage and bring you to newlywed status? Don't you think that things that matter, take work, sacrifice, etc. Do you value your family at all? Take her actions out of the equations for now. You don't DB based on your partners actions.
It's sad to me that two weeks ago you thought your marriage was busted and now you're cheating on your wife. You went from yahoo to hey I wonder which one of her friends is available to date....in two weeks. You know what, you SHOULD divorce your wife. Your lack of committment sucks and she deserves better than that, regardless of what she's doing now. And so does your daughter.
You know - things Amy has said to you might strike you wrong because you KNOW they're right. The things we need to hear the most, we generally dislike hearing about ourselves.
So man up or don't. Divorce your wife or don't. Stop freaking cheating on her! You're no better than her so pull yourself off the pedestal now before you fall and get hurt.
I think what's happening here Fish is you're tired. Selfish. And you're forgetting what DB is all about.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
