Let me get this straight -- you are 28, making good money, good job, have a nice house, etc.
And the kicker of it all... you have NO kids, right?
So with all of that said, you are letting your wife, who I am sure you are deeply in love with, have a relationship with OM AND YOU? That is exactly what she is doing.
I am not saying b/c you have no kids and all the other stuff that you should get a divorce, but what I am saying is that as long as you 'share' her, you will never be happy. Marriages don't work with 3 people in them.
I think it is time to realize what it is that she is doing to you. She is giving you crumbs at this point, and that is what you are living on. IMHO, You are not going to end up a happy man settling for crumbs when you should have the entire meal.
