Fish, I totally get that you've hit your point. However, getting into another relationship right now is not a good idea. There's a reason why the term "rebound relationship" has been coined. You need to continue to work on Fish for Fish. And getting involved with your W's friend is not good for your daughter. Since you've decided it's time for you, your next focus is your little girl, not you. This is going to rock her world and it's up to you to smooth it for her. You're a parent, you get to be a single guy second to that. Sucks, but true.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.