My gut says she's just trying to cause drama. Why now? Perhaps because he has been gone a while, perhaps the mood struck her, who knows. Don't worry about that aspect of it too much. Your H moved to be with you, and if he puts some effort out there is still hope.
I think you putting the ball in his court actually is a 180 to what was working before - when he chose to contact you and move to be with you. It'll also give you time to escape the drama.
Got any plans for the weekend? If not, call some of your friends cuz I think you could use a distraction.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2