Originally Posted By: Sara
Do you think that when one spouse grows up and acts mature, the other thinks 'Great! Now I can go back to being a kid and play all the time!"?


Sara, I didn't see this until this morning, but I wanted to say that I think this is exactly right. What kills me is that (in my case), H comes to depend on me for everything and being the responsible one who works everything out. THEN, gets angry with me because I'm not relaxed enough, I don't party enough, I don't let loose like he feels I should, I don't got out with him enough....etc. Well gee, someone has to watch the spending and our child and you sure aren't going to be the one to 1) Find a babysitter & 2) Pay for it.

I'm all for having fun, but there are limits to it too. With my H.....no limits.

SueS

Last edited by SueS; 03/28/08 04:04 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day