Well, heck! I had written a response to your last post, but my computer ate it! Don't have time to rewrite it now, but wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your advice and insights.
Will try to reconstruct it later.
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(