DB Gang

Thanks so much for your heartfelt concern, it is much appreciated.

Everyone has a point where they say "No Mas." It's over.

I reached mine and now I am committed to moving on with my life. Why waste another 6 months? It's time to start living again.

I did everything possible to save my marriage. I treated my W like a queen and she spit in my face. So, that's the end of that.

Quite honestly, I have spent very little time thinking about her at all. There have even been days this week that were W-free - absolutely no thoughts whatsoever. I guess she has been flushed from my system.

As far as the new chick goes, we do not talk about this sh*t at all. She does not need to "sell me" and give me pitches how she will take the pain away. The pain is gone. This is the best I have felt in a long time. I also know that we absoltuely would walk away as friends if the romance faded. Just the way it is.