I'm flabbergasted!!! My gast has never been so flabbered.
Ali!!!! You are so adorable!!! I never even thought about using "gast" as a freestanding noun before!!!
But you use flabbered as a verb all the time?
Transformer! I am happy for you. I didn't post it, but I would not have been surprised if he didn't call, and I didn't want to throw negative thoughts your way!
So, now I think you go really slow. I think a week, at least before you call. Because you still can't pursue, you just want to slowly become a normal part of his life. As far as seeing him, I don't think you schedule a special trip yet. I think the timing of the one that is already planned is good. You might make a a little longer than you planned, so you can be flexible. A couple weeks before you go, mention it to him, and say you'd like to see him. Really casually. Then let him decide if, when, and where.
