FLTC AGs last post on your locked thread was the best I saw. If you are doing that and venting here good to go. Like all we as your fellow posters react to what is presented to us.
Start doing your research, stop the lease you can do it, use emotion to your advantage where you ACT not RECACT. If anger comes out it's planned like a actor. Start calm and use emotion to emphasize points but use the emotion not letting it use use. Easy to say but hard to implement.
It's a business negoiation now and almost everything comes out of left field.
If you get a L get one with experience in your arena. Get a list of Questions for your Jag who may point you in a good direction. Does not mean your objectives change (saving family, helping kids, avoid being a hobo making 100K) just position yourself for if A happens then plan B kicks in.
Please Stomp a bad guy or two for us.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin