A few more things, perhaps BND, YR, Snodderly...anyone, perhaps your H's have said these things to you:
I told my H that I wanted him to be happy. That I hoped he was happy. He looked at me and said "do you honestly think I am happy. I come here and see my kids and I cry and you think I am happy." I wonder about this. Is this honesty. If he is so miserable and misses his kids so much....why is he still out there chasing MOW and his youth?
