what do you want from us.....you think your stitch is worse...how about mrs h, kissak, treeses,kikifree, poor lisa lost who got beat by her h, db5, and the list goes on.....mrs h has been at this 2 + yrs...look how nasty her h is
of course your h wants to leave it the way it is.....he can cake eat, and not have to make a decsion
we have told you it early in the game,....that this took strenght and PATIENCE. we told what behaviors drew him in and pushed him away. a week of NC from your h...thats nothing...in the blip on the mlc radar. a week after what you did..uhmmm...yeah....and you left him an ultimatum to boot, what did you expect???? Him to come running home to your arms? dont we all wish it happened that way.
we all hurt from ow. dont think for one minute we dont bleed from our very core. i was just like you sooo consumed and angry...ask anyone. i swear toh...when i let that anger go my h started his turn around....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest