Have you heard of a book called Peace Between the Sheets? I have very recently been told about it and I think it could really help me with the romantic / loving / sexual side of my M.
I've heard others recommend that Saffie. I'll need to look into it.
Originally Posted By: saffie
I love my H very much but sometimes I don't feel like I want the intimacy and it bothers ME that I feel like I don't want it. I feel like I should. And the more I feel bad about this area the worse things get until I just withdraw from the R and feel like my H is pursuing me.
This sounds like our dynamic. And the reverse is also true. I don't like to feel like I'm pursuing and it frustrates me when things get to this point. I know that this bleeds into the way I interact with W overall to the point where we both withdraw which doesn't help the situation at all.
So Saffie, what do you do to counter that dynamic? How do you get yourself to point where you want that intimacy? Is there something that your H is doing or not doing that would help?
