Originally Posted By: JenInVen
A lot has to do with my attitude towards him. I like to be in control ALL the time and I like to set and keep rules. I had/have a very controlling/manipulative mother and I think I learned my behaviour from her.

Jen


Hear, hear!

Of course we learn our behavior patterns from our parents!
But if can see them, we can change them too.

That's what makes you different from your M. You have a loving heart and clear mind, you see the patterns, analize them and change them. And you're doing a pretty good job, too!

G2G now, talk to you later, ((hugs)).


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