AH, I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment of my H. I have tried to explain this to my girls but (whilst I think they understand) they are still VERY hurt that thier father comes on a regular basis to pick S15 up and yet they are lucky to get a once a month contact.
Given what you put about Tia's suggestion I think we might have been cross posting!
Well I think the kids had a good time with H. To be honest it was difficult to tell. D12 did tell me that H went out of his way to NOT see the film they really wanted to see. He talked them out of it only to find out afterwards that it was b/c he wants to take OW to see it (yes you did read that right!) S15 also told me that the film they finally opted to see was going to be on too late for the time schedule H had set! So they changed thier minds and went and sat in the theatre waiting for the film to start. They waited and waited...... only to find out that the ticket seller had printed the wrong tickets out and had given them tickets to their original choice. Apparently they sat there waiting for about an hour.
YES THERE IS A GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry I must learn to control my emotions when it comes to divine retribution/karma (whatever you want to call it)
Almost forgot. It got better for H. D17 cancelled their drink together b/c her BF came home unexpectedly!
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Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
(yes you did read that right!) S15 also told me that the film they finally opted to see was going to be on too late for the time schedule H had set! So they changed thier minds and went and sat in the theatre waiting for the film to start. They waited and waited...... only to find out that the ticket seller had printed the wrong tickets out and had given them tickets to their original choice. Apparently they sat there waiting for about an hour. 
