My H wants to be responsible for EVERYTHING...except me or our Marriage
Vali please re-read what you wrote. I think he is doing all these things b/c he wants to control you. As for the finances if he is keeping them in shape and you will benefit from that keep letting him have control
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15