Jeanette, I've been thinking overnight about this new turn of events in your sitch. I firmly believe my H will eventually do something like this. It's exactly what he did when he got engaged. We (as in me and the kids) found out after 3 months on OUR WEDDING ANNIV. I was away for the weekend. He went to a lot of trouble to have the kids round to his flat supposedly for a BBQ. He knew damn well that D17 would spot the humunagous diamond on OWs hand in a flash. The poor thing played right into his hands. Disappointing thing is MIL was there to 'help him along'. She says she wasn't in on it but I don't believe for one minute that her son would not tell her that he was engaged or even that for 3 months she failed to notice this huge rock on OWs finger. Sadly for H it seems he had tried earlier to get D12 and S15 to notice (but bear in mind this was nearly 2 yrs ago) at a previous point in time but it went over their heads (thankfully for them).
So it's not just their spouses they are out to hurt it's sometimes their kids too.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
