I am so very sorry, too. I feel your pain, especially in this:
Originally Posted By: klm
I told him at this point it isn't what they did....it is being flat out lied to about it that makes me so mad.
Totally understand. I experienced this with my H only about a month ago and said the same thing to him. It's not what happened; it's that they lied to us. That's what kills more than anything else.
I think NC is the way to go right now, but do plan for it in the near future to discuss financial issues. Work out what's going to be best for the both of you, but mainly and most importantly to rid yourself from his responsibilities. It shouldn't be your burden any longer than it has to be.
(((((((Be strong.)))))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
