SH Sorry for your hard time I think all we can do is take care of ourselves, keep going in our lives leave H behind now we can leave the D open and let them initiate It baffles me why some of these mlcers dont file while many others file right away why not file if your sure also nice to know your H is having A problems with the ogre maybe the heaven picture you saw is a sign.. I always hear just wait continue in your stand listen to your heart maybew it doesnt make sense but not now,in your heart you have the answer im not sure we can follow logic in this MLCer issue or maybe you need a little more time to see if H and Ogre break up justy to see what will happen I dont know how a person finally makes a decision to not stand i am not there yet and i can empathize about wanting to just get out of it but maybe we can move ahead doing what we need to without filing maybe we could pray for guidence to know everyday I pray for H I akso pray that I would be led to Gods plan so if that means D, that I would break any denials and do gods will as ant other choice be it logical or not will not be right only gods will will be the highest road and most efficient path for npow patience peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow