What happens if you don't allow him the two week break? With all the extras he affords himself, why should you have to part with your princess for two weeks so he can keep spending recklessly? Have you talked to him about paying for D3s expenses up front when he gets paid so you can depend on him paying his share? I hope you're documenting all of this.
He's unbelievable..grrrr.. I swear I'd be craiglisting or pawning his stuff if he was my H! He'd also have no internet, cable or phone service until his child was taken care of. but then I can be pretty b*tchy
(((SUE))) Hang in there and keep your head up for D3s bday. Maybe your parents can offer some advice that will help.