Who is not attracted to who? How bad do the both of you want to have a great satisfying sexual relationship? There is a way to have a good sex life but you both have to really want it.
Is she the one reluctant? How much time do you spend with her? Do you know her? Are you interested in her? Do you try to fill her emotional needs? Like doing things that make her happy. Ex: giving her flowers or cuddling....things she likes. Do you know what she likes? What does she like to talk about?
You would be surprised at how diving in and really getting to know your spouse and investing time in them and doing nice things for them, even if you don't really fell like it- how your feelings will start to change for them. Even if you were not attracted to them before.
If you really want your marriage to change you are going to have to put some real effort in here. You are going to have to really work hard. Even if you don't right now have any interest in your wife, act like you do and the feelings will follow.
Good luck.
Me: 29 Dear Husband: 31 Married: 6 years Handsome Son: 3 years Beautiful Daughter: 5 months
