no expectations 6

[peacetoday]

Kiki NG Upside and NA
thanks for your support
NG glad your trip was fun..

Positive is atleast H is not ready to D
and he wants no changes
negative is this could be a while before he will figure out if he wants D or not

why do so many of these MLCers seem to be so unsure?
they move out proclaiming this is what they want, then for the next 1-2 years they keep us on a string waiting for a possible return
so they throw a crumb anytime they sense we may seriously be done

and why do they want to continue a frienship with the spouse they just abandoned?
many of them have OW.. Why not talk to her?
it is so mind boggling for any sane person to figure out!
do they think it will be easier to cut the ties to the family in another year
do they really want to come home but still cant
I am going to try to make plans tomorrow
the kids have already complained that they want to see H when I suggested we invite grandma and watch a move/dinner
maybe I will need to step up a night out with just kids to make it more fun soi they dont complain to H about mom taking a night away
maybe a movie out? If I cant get it together tomorrow I will do it next week and I plan to keep throwing little last minute changes in to see what happens
hope you are all doing well
peace