Yes she filed in August. D could have been final in January in our state. So why aren't we divorced?
Yes I'm still working on it. She is still thinking on it (I think). Saw her tonight. for some reason she can't keep her eyes off my biceps. Mlcers are very confused and many don't know what they want (crisis = cross = crossroad = choice).
I too felt if "x" happens, I'm done. It happened, I wasn't done. Then I thought, well if "y" happens, I'm done. It happened too, I wasn't done. Will "z" happen? Don't know. will I be done? H*ll no!
That's why I say YOU have to decide what you want and commit yourself to it no matter what happens. Saying you are done if X happens is letting circumstances make life altering decisions for you (and your children). Is that any way to live your life? Are we amoebas being sloshed around in the surf?
"If you can keep your head when all around you are losing theirs, then you shall be a man, my son." T. S. Elliot?
Who is keeping their head and who is losing theirs in your sitch, BT?
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"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
