It will my 1 year on April 12 that my world stopped turning. Like a person drowning in water I was lasing out and grabbing anything I could. I felt like I was going under and I asked someone here. "How long will it take to "fix" my marriage?" That wise DBer said.” It will take as long as it takes". I have heard from Saffie, Sara, Tal, Yoyo and many others Baby steps, baby steps....
Today W got a call for a job. BUT..... She declined it. I am ok with that. It was an evening job and she has a hard time driving at night and she is the smart one in the family that helps son with his home work so she needs to be here at night, But job offer is a Very good sign. And I told her so. It means there are jobs out there. I feel the end is near... I feel that soon she will have her job and I will need to be strong and NOT fall into that "comfort Zone". I have worked to hard and came too far to settle for anything. I will need to act on my request for retro soon. I can't take the easy way out and settle. I have been through hell and back...I could have blown it all out of the water, I could have told the world and cried about the injustice I suffered but I did not.. What has gotten me this far??
patience Saint Francis De Sales Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections, but instantly set about remedying them – every day begin the task anew.
Lao Tzu Trying to understand is like straining through muddy water. Be still and allow the mud to settle.
Michelangelo Genius is eternal patience.
Thomas Henry Huxley Patience and tenacity of purpose are worth more than twice their weight of cleverness.
Hesiod If you add a little to a little, and then do it again, soon that little shall be much.
Turkish proverb Patience is the key to paradise.
Chinese proverb With time and patience, the mulberry leaf becomes satin. With time the patience the mulberry leaf becomes a silk gown.
John Dryden Beware the fury of a patient man.
Horace Patience makes lighter what sorrow may not heal.
They Call me DrLOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
