hey jasmine, you are doing all the right things. My H's OW was a friend of mine, and my girls knew her very well, as well as her kids. They still talk about "Miss OW" and her kids a lot. Hard, very hard.

FA, I am curious too, have seen you post other places. I would like to hear more about you, about why you decided to come back to your W (I am only assuming here). What she did and didn't do that made your decisions...etc. Feel free to tell me to shut it if you don't want to talk about it. lol