Wow Fish, I didn't think you'd screw up so bad. You KNOW, you are not ready to get in a relationship, yet you just THROW yourself right out there.
I think you CAN'T STAND to be alone for 1 minute, can you. I feel for this new girl. She obviously has no integrity to go out with her "best friends" husband the minute the water gets too hot for him.
Your daughter will see what's going on. And, speaking from one, she'll hate you for a long time. I hope this new hottie is worth it!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Well Fish, you've really got the old team going, haven't you! Feel better now that you've left us all hanging about your great upcoming weekend ? Personally, I don't think you got any last night nor do I think you're gonna bang away the weekend. I think you're probably gonna be at your buddies watching the bigscreen. Now, just in case I'm wrong, if you think dating and/or boffing a good friend of your W's is a sign of wellness on your part...WRONG! It's kind of pathetic. I'd really thought that you were bigger than that (no pun intended), hope you prove me right. Again, take time to calm down and feel your pain before making any decisions at all, there's no rush.
It seems like you thought the journey was over when you went back home. Regardless, if you keep posting here, I'd have to take that a sign that reconciling your M is on your mind...I just wouldn't understand coming here to sing the praises of a conquest and wanting a D...seems completely contradictory to your original purpose.
I understand GAL, heal yourself, apply DB/DR, and we do it all for ourselves 1st...but just doesn't seem like what you want in the end. Sounds angry and reactionary to me...
Fishy! Remember when you were first here, and you wanted everyting, and you wanted it now? I thought we had finally gotten through that, and you realized that time was what was needed. Then you jumped the run on Busted, which could only be a mirage.
This is the time to sit down and look at yourself, not turn into a lout!
He is a big boy, and I think (hope) he knows what he is doing.
Maybe we need a new forum called "OFF THE RAILS" for when the sitch blows up in our face!
Fish...remember back a couple of months ago when hound was 'hounding' you. You would listen to him, then do the opposite. Eventually the 2X4s got through to you. You started listening, and things started to come together.
There are some similarities here...
Just take your time, and don't burn any bridges, buddy.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
sorry but that was too funny BT.