I have no idea what is going on...are they still w/each other...has he contacted a L...is he going to file...will his check be in the bank Friday...????
Have heard he's cut back on the drinking this week, well he hasn't sit at BIL's every day like he had been. Only there this morning after work and for only a couple of hours. Of course that is good.
I have an appointment with a lawyer Tuesday. Just going to talk to him for now. Maybe see about protection for myself and the girls.
I have been reading here every day. I read how most of you have for the most part pleasant contact with your H's. Most of you can ignore that he has an OW. Most of you are caring on a friendship with your WAS. HOW!?!?! How do you get to that point? How can the thought of him with OW not drive you to act? How do I get back to being able to be a friend to my H? Today I was thinking that if I could just let go of the fact that he is totally disrespecting me by being with her, and if he could get over his anger towards me, then we could maybe be friends again. But how?
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
